Okayyy... so Aliens created Humans.

So who created the Aliens ?????

libraguy,

If I am you.. I will read the letter .. then make a few copies and send one to her current BF.

Two foolish adults having an affair = DISASTER.

Originally posted by Newdude:

 

Newdude,

You must be a very young girl and a very foolish one too.

Since you have no intention of leaving Singapore.. why in the world you get pregnant BEFORE he gets his PR ?

Wanting a baby before your husband can establish his PR status in the country YOU want to live.. is just plain foolish and irresponsible.

There are many trans-national couples who got married and wait for everything to be completed before they have their children. It's called "family planning".

You must be so ignorant.

Western women will not want to marry men like your husband.. because they know too many cases of them making use of young innocent females to establish their overseas status. Much like the China girls who uses Singaporean men to get a SG PR. Once they are done and got what they want... they either abandon them or ill-treat them.

If you really love your husband so much and wants your child to grow up in a complete family. You should just go to your husband's homecountry. From there.. you can apply the SG PR for your husband and the SG citizenship for your child.

You may think your hubby is nice to you now.. wait till you go back with him to his country or he decides it's not worth the effort just to get his PR in Singapore. By then.. we'll see if Mr Nice Guy.. turns into the biggest mistake of your life.

And your baby will be the most innocent victim who has to carry the burden of your foolishness.

To protect our sisters and daughters , I'd rather ICA officers treat foreign men who wants to take the short cut to our land ... harsh.. than to have them come here and think they can easily take advantage of our securities.

You know why the ICA is giving your hubby a hard time ???

Just because you are married to him does not gives him automatic rights to PR status.

YOU the sponsor must prove that you can support him financially for the next few years, so that he does not become a burden to the SG society.

Are you financially stable and able to do that now ? IF NOT, then If he is really that capable to take care of himself in SG.. then it's best he comes in on a valid work visa..so that he can establish his capability to contribute first and take care of his wife and baby......then apply for a PR later.

 Not that the ICA are racist.. you want to blame , blame it on your hubby's qualifications.

A few couples I know have gotten their PR and they are from middle east.. Only took them less than 6 months to get approval. Those couples have strong academic and industry experience, and they don't need to marry a SG girl to get into SG.

And that part about him cancelling a contract and paying a lump sum penalty ... girl.. are you really that GULLIBLE ?

Why must he quit his job just so he can marry you ?

Why couldn't he KEEP that job.. come over to marry you.. and go back to his job and wait for the PR to be approved before making you pregnant ? If he had done this instead..both of you probably wouldn't be getting so much flak from ICA.

So.. after all is said...my suggestion is ..

Instead of having him bum around in SG.. which is making it even harder for him to get a SG PR.

He goes back to his home country , find himself a decent job so as to make sure he can take good care of you and the baby.

You can apply for your baby's SG citizenship while living in Turkey as long as one of the parent is a SG Citizen ( YOU).

As a family that can survive on your own.. it will look better on the paper you submit to ICA.

In other words.. ICA DO NOT APPROVE BUMS.

So stop blaiming it on racism or anti-immigrants or terrorism. And it has got nothing to do with ICA's humanity or not.

If you don't know how to make your situation look good for submission.. you're in for a rough ride FOR A LONG LONG TIME.

Good luck.

Newdude,

 

It is not ICA's responsibilities to make sure your family stay together.

 

You and your husband are the ones responsible for making sure the family stays intact.

 If you really think just because you are having an "anchor" baby.. your husband should have the right to become Singapore PR. You are being very naive.

 The ICA's responsibilities is also to ensure foreign men don't abuse the system by coming to Singapore on a visitor visa , make Singaporean women pregnant and use them ( the woman and the baby )as a ticket to get out of their God forsaken country.

I pray that man don't abandon you and your baby once he figures out he's not getting where he wants to go.

 I feel sorry for your parents.

 

 

 

 

Originally posted by sportsman411:

what a tough crowd, i did not reveal her identity in any way? saying she's german and chinese, thats all? i dont tihnk i mentioned her name. if u can round up all the german chinese in singapore and point her out without taking a clue from me then i will personally pay you any amount you want. im not offended so its ok. i can see how tough the crowd is at sgforum.

and then another thing, i mentioned kissing her, so what? kisskisskiss, she's not from here mind you, and i personally know how open she is, bt thats nt the point anyway. look all over sgforums, you'll find many others revealing much deeper things then i did. much more kiss-and-tell. i didnt give any details did i?

sorry rednano no form of identity revealed here. =) 

Yah right. Good thing she dumped a shit head like you.

That girl deserves a man with intelligence.

Try working on growing a brain next time you want to keep a girl.

Since you're really so dumb.

Let me explain to you what "You're not my ex-bf" really mean.

She's really telling you to fuck off . But since you don't understand what fuck-off means.. she's being nice to you by saying " You're not my ex-bf". GETTIT ???

Now which part of this posting you do not understand ?

 

 

You need to listen to Sinead O conner's .. Nothing Compares To You

With the way you are exposing her identity and letting other guys know you've already made out with her..

I say, she's better off without such a kiss and tell jerk (you, yes you)

It was a mistake on her part to even gave you a chance...time you take a hike dude.

 

Originally posted by parn:

Since you really have to give me your retarded replies, I shall not get into your retarded argument.

White people does not originated from USA and they weren't the natives in USA. Although now America is considered as a western nation, but you should know that the White men in Western countries like America and the White men in Asian countries like Singapore are different. And the Asian men in Western countries like America and the Asian men in Asian countries like Singapore are different.

If you insists that they are the same, then you are just a retarded bimbo.

 

Yawnzzzz....... anything else ?

Originally posted by 3dogs:

6 of my girlfriends married Ang Mo, afew others are dating Ang Mo. I asked them once why they like Ang Mo.

 They claim that they are more fun (every other day they get to go fine dining, clubbing, etc ), got more humour, more 'gentleman' (I don't believe in this shit, once married for donkey yrs, it will be down the drain) and more money. For the Ang Mo to come Singapore to work, he must be holding a high post job = money. & once u start going out with one of them, there is no turning back. They say its addictive.

So in other words.. as long as the guy is holding a high post and earns a decent income.. is generous, gentleman and fun to be with.. girls will be attracted to them loh.

This is the norm in every country lor.

Which girl will go for a boring, self-serving , stingy , ill-mannered, financially broke and/or with no ambitions and still feeding from his mama's spoon ?

Guys... before you go around calling females uncivilised names... ask yourself.. in what ways are you better than your competitors ?

If you claim that you are a traditional guy. Let me tell you ok, that traditional actually means....

Obsolete, stubborn to change, old thinking, boring, or old school.

 

 

 

Haiz.. my heart bleeds for my motherland.

Another Enron crisis in the making..in Singapore.

An Ang Moh Boyfriend.

Originally posted by noahnoah:

slut ?

Jojo, aiyo white man more handsome and more loaded leh

so asian girls sure prefer them wat

like man from sg also prefer overseas girls

LoL

 

Aiyoh.. Noah.. plese don follow Parn's footstep can ?

Not all Ang moh are rich.. and not all Asians are poor.

The real issue here has got nothing to do with money. rather how well the men from different culture do their mating dance.

 

Aiyah.. guys thinks the girls who likes Ang Mohs are sluts.

Then foreign girls who come here to marry Singaporean guys are not slut meh ?

 

 

Originally posted by parn:

I see you are confused in your own argument and also this topic. I was talking about Asian guy with White girlfriend.

You should revert back to what had been posted. It's something that every normal person are capable of doing it, so I believe you should be able to do it too.

But let me know if you need my help ok?

By the way, White people (ang moh) doesn't comes from USA and I don't even need to roll my eyes at all.

And let me know if you need my help to google it or you want me to spoon-feed with the answer. And I only babysit ignorant children.

Clearly, living in USA doesn't makes a person smarter, it just makes a person more retarded.

It's so true that Singaporeans are so much better than Americans.

Tsk tsk tsk... sad to inform you Parn... your replies ... are just so bimbo-ish... I cringed when I read it.

Do you even KNOW what you are posting ?

So if USA is not part of the "Western" countries... what is it part of ? Middle east ??!!! LOL....

 

Originally posted by parn:

OMG...You are in USA, did you bothered to take a look at where you're posting and to which community is this forum focused on?

So how come you are using your situation in USA to compare with the situation in Asian countries?

Forgotten that you were participating in SgForums?

I don't think your western culture in USA is exactly relevant to what we are discussing in here.

I believed I was discussing about Asian guys with White girls in ASIAN countries in this SgForums in SOUTH-EAST ASIA.

You should understand the discussion and think about the location and community of this forum first before you come and LIBERATE this forum with your American "democracy".

 

OMG !!!!

Do you know what is the story of " The Frog In The Well" about ?

Now, are you comparing ANG MOH Guys FROM western countries vs SG Asian Guys ?

Or are you really comparing SG ANG MOH (if got such thing) guys vs SG Asian GuyS ?? DUHHH !!!

Where do you think ANG MOH GuyS comes from ???? (Roll eyes)....

Ask why the ASIANS who grew up in Asian countries cannot hitch a Ang moh Chick while the Asians who grew up in Western countries CAN ????

Girl... there's too much air in your head.. perhaps if you try farting a few more times.. you'd actually get those hot air outa your brain..(that is if you have one)....

 

Originally posted by sacredspirits:

Your friend at the club must be really drunk then.... lol

I doubt it.

White guys may have a different set of ideas when it comes to beauty of Asian girls.

What is beauty to them (white) may not to be beauty to Asian.

I've seen some Caucasian guys with Asian girls who looks like they kena langa by lorry. But they still love em anyway.... (shrugs).....

 

Originally posted by parn:

It's not sua ku, everybody knows BANANAS are commonly found in most Asia countries. Just that those walking BANANAS are still uncommon.....

You can insist your previously phrased question is almost the same, but are you willing to admit that the perspective of your questions are different?

My perspective was towards Asian guys while your perspective was toward White girls. (Remember the white girls with asian guys question?)

Funny that you were asking about white girls with asian guys, you should know...white girls don't really like asian guys as much as asian guys loves white girls.

When you see a white girl with an asian guy, the first common question that comes into mind is why is that white girl hanging out with an asian guy? And NOT why is that asian guy so hot that the white girl need to hang out with him?

I dunno which community you hanged out with, but white girl with asian guy is still not common in this world YET.

Aiyoh... Parn girl.. you live in Ancient China issit ?

When was the last time you go walk walk see see in western world ?

I live in USA lah.. and I go travelling around the states often leh.

I have several married couple friends who are Asian guy marry Ang moh Girls... got children some more.

The Asian-Amercan guy are not Movie stars ok ? They are just average Asian-Americans.

Yes it's true.. Ang Moh girls hardly go for Asian guys with that narrow minded Asian thinking. But they surely don't mind the Asian guys with more modernised culture.

So hor.. like I said many times... it's not the skin color or their looks or other shallow stuff...

The behaviors and thinking of a man is VERY important.

 

Originally posted by eagle:

white on the outside and yellow on the inside ah

Lotus seed paste buns lor

Hmmmm... sounds so sweet and tasty... no wonder Asian girls like lor??

Originally posted by parn:

You missed out one important scenario!!!

What about Asian guys who have white girlfriends??? har? har? har???

Should we call those Asian guys as BANANAS? (Cos YELLOW on the outside but WHITE on the inside)

Hello to all the sgforum BANANAS

Xiao Jie.. i already asked this question on ... please scroll up and read ok ? Good.

Anyway.. Asian guys with white WIFE is common lah.. don be so suah koo leh.

Then what you call those who are white on the outside and yellow on the inside har ?

I got few ang moh friends can speak some Asian language and got asian wifes leh.

Originally posted by BadzMaro:

U cant answer a question with another question. man..

Yes i have asian friends who grew up in the west. And yes i have been to the west before.

Be more specific on the culture n upbringing bit. Cause to me my friend is as chinese as i am. To name 1 friend then to compare. Lets see.. He has black hair. Like me. He speaks english like me , but has a more american accent.he speaks a lil chinese but cant write, while i can write n read chinese. He has that ABC look , born n bred there ,ate the food, listened to the music. While i got more sun then him , slightly more tan. mmm... lets see. His Primary n secondary school years is definately different from mine. But i was only educated outside on the last years of thier high school.  hmmm...  Uni outside. I agree socially it was different. I am half west half east.While he is 100% western educated.

Lets see.. about culture. He knows what Chinese new year but doesnt know the date until he sees the decorations begin at china town. .. the comparison can go on n on.

So my question was about how u compare the culture thingy... and upbringing.

 

Yah lah.. the culture will also affect your upbringing mah.

I not comparing the looks leh... you dun get confused ok ? Good.

Originally posted by BadzMaro:

Upbringing ? so.. what u trying to say..... our culture n upbringing ?

So our culture makes us less desirable ?

 

 

Badz my boy.. do you have any Asian friends who grew up in the west ? Or have you been to the West ever before ?

 

Originally posted by ben1406:

im living in toronto canada now, and i can tell you not all white / black men treat their ladies with respect. i have alot of male friends that sleep around even when they are attached or engaged. 

 

Duh ... let's put it this way easier for you lah...

Yes.. there will always be some guys.. irregardless of what color.. will ill treat their woman. Asian guys included.

The problem is.... Asian guys ... IN ASIA.. tends to be less desirable ... because of their culture and upbringing.

I live in USA... your neighbour.. JUST comparing ASIAN guys who grew up in USA, are already better than the Asian guys who grew up IN ASIA.

It has got nothing to do with color... it's the culture they carry that makes the difference.

 

Um.. so Asian girls who go for white guys = sluts.

Then white girls who date Asian guys = what har ??

Why are Asian guys so insecure ?

 We girls don't care what color you are.

Asian guys should ask themselves ...... do they treat their women better than the white guys ?

 

Yes, you should hire a lawyer.. not to sue your neighbour.. but you need to sue the HDB for lack of due diligence as the lessor.

Ask to speak to the director or upper level managements. Keep escalating until you get the problem fixed.

 

Yawnz... watching 2 men going senile is sooo damn entertaining.....

Originally posted by xtreyier:

Thank you poh for your wall of text instead of your own original thoughts. At least better than the moronic ex-citizen living US who offers nothing except provocative insults.

 

I only ask you these in the hope that you will learn to differentiate between slaving to others' opinions but instead develope your own critical analytic skill:-

 

1. Is it fair that msians can invest and withdraw funds anytime anywhere, but others investing in msia cannot withdraw their funds anytime?

 

I more or less can guess your answer, either way which will only support the view that protectionism is an unnecessary evil.

 

2. If capital controls are so good, why isn't Msia still using it?

 

3. Did capital control actually work? or was it a general recovery in asia that worked instead, because other asian states did not adopt msian measures and did no worse.

Mr Xtreyier,

Are you too cowardly to tell everyone here who that ex-citizen is ? Yes it takes guts to not beat around the bush.

Your postings are a reflection of what goes on in your head.

What goes on in your head defines what kind of person you are.

If you think you can come here and talk like a primary school student yet expect others to treat you like a degree graduate.... I say.. GROW UP.