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Originally posted by nisi:
Hi,
well I'm not exactly in agony but would like people to talk me through this to make me think better.
I think everybody has their fair share of nasty relationships and I've been hurt very badly before that I don't trust anymore.
I'm currently with a guy who makes me feel like believing in love all over again. The thing is although he's very sweet to me so far, his pasts made me unsure about how this is going to end.
He has been with plenty of girls and is easy in that sense, and he flirts around a lot as well.. Although this is in his past as far as I know, I can't helped but wonder about this when he mentions his past occasionally.
Any concrete actions to alleviate/help with this? I know talking to him is one solution. Any other perhaps?
in red:
He's giving you a warning.
Did you ask about his past or that he mention about it himself? He mentioned it himself right? Yes warning. He has hinted to you already. Trust me.

Behavior to continue..? You expect him to change and be faithful from now on? It will be hard. Are you willing to take the risk? It's all up to you but if you were to go for it then I think you should be prepared.. anyway just observe first. Else, walk away.
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Originally posted by mistyblue:
You don't seem to have her trust. What have you done or not done before that she needs tight control over you? What are you doing now to gain her confidence? Why not just talk to her.
I was thinking about that too. TS dont gain the trust of her mom.
I think the first step to do is to gain that trust. They need to talk, ask the mom what is she fearing of, etc.
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Originally posted by sand king:
You are all wrong!
No playground = more shop space
More shop space = able to sit more customers
More customers in shop = more sales
More sales = more profit.
no ar no ar.
No playground = more shop space
More shop space = able to sit more customers
able to seat more customers = more tables more chairs
more tables more chairs = we dont have to wait longer for seats
who cares bout their sales profit

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- TS got ditched by a girl who enjoys partying. So there goes the hate.
- TS got rejected by a girl (who enjoys partying) during the pickup. So there goes the hate.
- TS got ignored by his girl because the girl rather goes
partying than to accompany TS (eg. Sex). Party > Sex. So there
goes the hate.
Anymore to add on?
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Originally posted by arieswilson:
my advice is : go with the flow.
since you are still not married, you need to be clear what kind of woman you really desire for a life partner.
you can have a stead for 2 years or more. but that does not necessarily mean she's definitely the one who's destined to marry you.
marriage can either be your bliss or your grave. think and look long-term, and find the right life partner, before you sign that piece of paper that will seal your fate.
in love, there's no right or wrong. if you really love someone, fight for her with your dear life. and if you no longer love her, please be merciful enough to let her go find her new happiness. a woman's youth is limited. don't waste her time, and yours.
agree.. esp the part in red
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Crush.
Since he sees you often (and smile to each other right?) then I guess he already knows about your existence which is a good sign. The next time you see him maybe you can chat up with him (the moment when you 2 smile at each other but the distance must be near dont walk up to him if y'all are smiling from a distance) a bit like, hey i seem to notice you hangin around here pretty often, do you live nearby or something.... anyway this is a cool place to hangout in to do some work isnt it.... blabla.
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
but somehow the r/s will be affected by their harsh comments. trust me ok? cus my previous r/s was an example. she left me for a guy who is 8 yrs older than me..
parn also dun agree with jie di lian..
huh. what does she leavin you got to do with jie di lian?
If the r/s is firm, nothing can affect 1 lor.
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