To tell the truth, I am kinda bothered by it. But if I ask him to change, then it wun be really him anymore rite?

/runs away



(I want to hear your opinion still)

i am a hypocrite, =) i am different online and offline.

Originally posted by coffeeortea:

i am a hypocrite, =) i am different online and offline.

u mean u use a lot of swearwords here? but not like dat when u r offline?

but if u hav a gf, and she likes to swear, wud u like it? If no, wud u get her to stop or put up wif it cos it is part of her?

Originally posted by rainee:

u mean u use a lot of swearwords here? but not like dat when u r offline?

but if u hav a gf, and she likes to swear, wud u like it? If no, wud u get her to stop or put up wif it cos it is part of her?

haha.. i use ALOT of swear words here, but basically for the fun of it. I like replying to people who come up with rather retarded posts, and its funny to see how they reply.

i use swear words in real life, but i dont do so as unreasonably as i do online, you get what i mean if you just read a random cussing post of mine.

hmm, i definitely wont like it so much, but i wont hate it so much either, however, she is afterall, a girl, and should be more graceful and feminine. i would encourage her to tone down and spare overuse of vulgarities. also, im not saying that all girls must be graceful, but i prefer lesser rough and vulgar girls =D

Originally posted by rainee:

To tell the truth, I am kinda bothered by it. But if I ask him to change, then it wun be really him anymore rite?

/runs away



(I want to hear your opinion still)

whats wrong with swear words? using swear words is manly.

Originally posted by the.raven:

whats wrong with swear words? using swear words is manly.

I don't want my gf to use swear words.....

It just means she's just a chao ah lian....

Originally posted by the.raven:

whats wrong with swear words? using swear words is manly.

dats not my definition of manly...

of course!! my gf must be demure and elegant. occasionally can lah but cannot all the time.

If he swears excessively and even at small provocation, I won't like it. It's rude and unclouth.

I have a right to tell him that his swearing affects my mood and sensibilities and if he were sensitive and respectful enough, he would moderate his swearing somewhat.

My frens and i once counted somebody's use of the F word while he is on the phone

For the record, 32 times in five mins, not counting other vulgarities....

Originally posted by choco B:

If he swears excessively and even at small provocation, I won't like it. It's rude and unclouth.

I have a right to tell him that his swearing affects my mood and sensibilities and if he were sensitive and respectful enough, he would moderate his swearing somewhat.

well, it is not exactly excessively...but it is often enuff to disturb me..of cos I hvae known of people who swear more than him, but still it will be good if he minimizes his swearings...

I have told him this before, and he toned down for a while before it comes back all over again...and then I thought, am I trying to change him because I am disturbed by his swearing?

Btw, I think it got worse after he went back to NS, before that it wasn't that often...

Originally posted by laurence82:

My frens and i once counted somebody's use of the F word while he is on the phone

For the record, 32 times in five mins, not counting other vulgarities....

Originally posted by rainee:

To tell the truth, I am kinda bothered by it. But if I ask him to change, then it wun be really him anymore rite?

/runs away



(I want to hear your opinion still)

a person's "choice" of words is not ingrained in his DNA
can change one...

It depends on what you like to hear.

"What the Fuck is that?"

or

"What the diddly doo-doo is that?"

Personally I prefer the first option.

Originally posted by charlize:

It depends on what you like to hear.

"What the Fuck is that?"

or

"What the diddly doo-doo is that?"

Personally I prefer the first option.

occasional use of it doesn't matter...

but if it happens often enuff, it kinda...hurt my ears

Originally posted by rainee:

occasional use of it doesn't matter...

but if it happens often enuff, it kinda...hurt my ears

Tell him to substitute Fuck with diddly doo-doo.

See if you still like him after that.

Haha. For me, I use swear words very often. Haha. Whether issit for fun or for real, it's like so common you know? Like wtf?! Lol. Like that also swearwords right....



But normally this problem don't happen to me so much lah cos normally is my ex bfs tell me to shut up don't say so many swear words one. LOL. THey always say girls mus be more gentle...

No what. Equality of sexes. However, I do not like my bf to swear too much in hokkien. Fuck still nvm... Those knn ccb flowery words come out... abit

Yes you are disturbed . And it's not wrong to acknowledge that.

Everyone has different tolerance to swearing. If you've a problem, better talk it out and find some way to compromise on this. Rather than just tahan and allow the problem to snowball.

Originally posted by rainee:

...and then I thought, am I trying to change him because I am disturbed by his swearing?

Originally posted by charlize:

Tell him to substitute Fuck with diddly doo-doo.

See if you still like him after that.

It is not those sentences..

Alrite, I have nothing against ppl who say "wtf", cos I do that too...

But there is a type of swearing, when you do it too often, it will kinda disturb me...esp those involving hokkien vulgarities...occasional usage of it is still ok, but if in every conversation oso got...

What I dun understand is why can just substitute those words with other more subtle ones?

Originally posted by Miaka:

Haha. For me, I use swear words very often. Haha. Whether issit for fun or for real, it's like so common you know? Like wtf?! Lol. Like that also swearwords right....



But normally this problem don't happen to me so much lah cos normally is my ex bfs tell me to shut up don't say so many swear words one. LOL. THey always say girls mus be more gentle...

No what. Equality of sexes. However, I do not like my bf to swear too much in hokkien. Fuck still nvm... Those knn ccb flowery words come out... abit

yea, those are the ones I meant

Originally posted by charlize:

It depends on what you like to hear.

"What the Fuck is that?"

or

"What the diddly doo-doo is that?"

Personally I prefer the first option.

LOL LMFAO.. you seriously got me laughing with what the diddly doo-doo HAHAHAHAHA

Originally posted by rainee:

yea, those are the ones I meant

Yeah lah. Go out with them, no matter how handsome he is also . Imagine we go out take MRT...

Everyone stare cos he so handsome! Then... suddenly... he say KNN! WHY NO PLACE TO SIT?!

Originally posted by Miaka:

Yeah lah. Go out with them, no matter how handsome he is also . Imagine we go out take MRT...

Everyone stare cos he so handsome! Then... suddenly... he say KNN! WHY NO PLACE TO SIT?!

But seriously now I feel a lil bit bad for creating tis topic, cos once ai ai saw it, he wun like it

Dun be mad at me darling, I am just trying to gather opinion...cos dunno if I am too sensitive or wat...

Originally posted by Miaka:

Haha. For me, I use swear words very often. Haha. Whether issit for fun or for real, it's like so common you know? Like wtf?! Lol. Like that also swearwords right....



But normally this problem don't happen to me so much lah cos normally is my ex bfs tell me to shut up don't say so many swear words one. LOL. THey always say girls mus be more gentle...

No what. Equality of sexes. However, I do not like my bf to swear too much in hokkien. Fuck still nvm... Those knn ccb flowery words come out... abit

i only say Fuck most of the time, or Damn, Bloody, Fag, Gay.. never use hokkien bad words even when i was in singapore, esp ccb or something stupid like that.. sounds really weird.. and i mean really weird.